You and I have the option of looking at the things that happen in our life as positive or negative. It is all in our perspective. Sometimes it takes a lot of effort to find the positive in a situation. However, if you look at it in the right perspective and carefully break it down; you will be able to find something positive. Sometimes we have to learn some painful lessons from things we do, decisions we make, mistakes we make or what we think is random things happening to us. When we start to blame everything bad that happens on everyone else or even on ourselves; we will not find the positive that can come from the life lesson. It takes a high level of maturity to find the good when it looks like everything going on is bad. It takes a focused and destiny minded person to find the positive lessons that come our way. If you desire a positive, peaceful, happy, growing, learning, positive, restful, insightful, and destiny filled life; then you have to have the right perspective on life. A person of destiny has to have the right perspective on life or they will never be able to live their destiny. Take a step back and look at things from the positive perspective!